Bruce,
WOW.Thank you.
My husband read your post and I think things got through. I'm glad you mentioned taking things slow because he says that's what he wants to do.One step at a time.
We will be making a phone call to the counselor to see what we can get started.
I was just at a point (when originally posting)of anger and frustration because he was in so much pain. No amount of ear drops or antibiotics,painkillers can touch it.It's hard to see it.
Thank you again,for taking me seriously and offering your advise.
Melanie