Hi Akinara!
I was also moved by your post.
It is difficult when one feels trapped by the circumstances and when it involves physical difficulties even more so.
How wonderful that you have your dad. I have also been very lucky to have such a great and supportive dad in my life.
I also know what it is like to be around obsessive people! Not much fun especially when you feel vulnerable. That can all change though.
If you are anywhere near the new england area it would be great to somehow get in touch with the Kushi Institute. Even if you are not near there perhaps they can give you some contacts. there are travelling trained macro cooks who can help with home remedies, food, advice etc.
talk to your dad about it or maybe attending a program there with him or with some assitance.
don't worry about convincing other people about mb or their problems etc. Just do whatever you feel you need to or can manage and when they see/feel the changes in you, they will take notice - or not and that is ok too.
A consultation like Klara recommended is really important in your situation.
try to get one in person. Though some do consultations by phone etc as well.
I know from personal experience and challenges that is very frightening when you feel like you are racing against the clock and it all depends on you to turn it around. I also know that medical prognosis are often highly innacurate but can be self fulfillinf proficies. There is no one who can put a time frame on how long any of us have. There are many stories in mb and in natural healing that continuously defy the odds. and whomakes up these odds anyway?!
Fear is a natural response but just creates more problems physically, emotionally and spiritually.
in addition to the macro stuff you may like to explore some ways to use energy and spiriutal technques to break out of the patterns - they are so powerful they affect those around you by their very resonance.
however if you try to change those around you they often get worse. By accepting them exactly as they are (not easy - I do know) it often melts the resistance so it is a bit of a catch 22 - love them as they are to get them to change!
often instead of the resistance just repeat I love you mentally in their presence. it can do wonders
here are some options
Jin shin Jyutsu (you can get some sessions initially and as you get better you can do it yourself)
zpoint
www.zpointprocess.com
you can learn it online for free and it is all done mentally
the ishayas ascension
www.ishaya.org
please keep us posted with your progress.
feel free to ask any questions
with love and enocuragement
ilanit